Confessions of a Former Perfectionist: Done is Better Than Perfect
For most of my life, I wore perfectionism like a badge of honor. I convinced myself that setting impossibly high standards meant I was ambitious, hardworking, and committed to excellence. In reality, perfectionism often left me paralyzed—unable to finish projects, take risks, or simply enjoy the process.
Over the years, both personally and professionally, I’ve learned that done is better than perfect. This mindset shift has freed me from the anxiety of never feeling “good enough” and allowed me to take action, iterate, and grow. If you find yourself trapped in perfectionism, here are some lessons I’ve learned along the way:
“Have no fear of perfection-you'll never reach it.” - Salvidor Dalí
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“Have no fear of perfection-you'll never reach it.” - Salvidor Dalí 〰️
1. Perfectionism Kills Progress
There were countless projects I never launched, ideas I never voiced, and opportunities I let slip away because I was too focused on getting everything just right. The truth? Nothing will ever be perfect. The more time we spend obsessing over perfection, the more we delay making real progress.
2. Learning Happens in the Doing
No matter how much we plan, real growth happens through action. Some of my biggest personal and professional breakthroughs came from putting something out into the world—even if it wasn’t perfect—and refining it based on feedback. Progress, not perfection, leads to success.
3. Perfectionism is Fear in Disguise
At its core, perfectionism is often about fear—fear of failure, fear of judgment, fear of not being good enough. When I stopped chasing perfection, I realized how much of my hesitation stemmed from self-doubt. By embracing “good enough,” I allowed myself to move forward with confidence.
4. Done Builds Momentum
Every time I complete something—even if it’s not flawless—I gain momentum. Taking action fuels creativity, builds confidence, and leads to continuous improvement. When we let go of perfectionism, we create space for progress and innovation.
5. Perfection is Subjective Anyway
What I consider perfect might be different from someone else’s perception of perfect. Instead of aiming for an unattainable, ever-changing ideal, I now focus on delivering value. A project that is done—even if it has room for improvement—can still make a meaningful impact.
Letting Go and Moving Forward
Shifting from perfectionism to a done is better than perfect mentality hasn’t been easy, but it’s been worth it. I’ve launched projects, taken risks, and most importantly, given myself permission to be human.
So if you’re hesitating on something because it’s not perfect—whether it’s a career move, a creative project, or even just sending an email—remember this: Done is better than perfect. Take the leap, press send, and trust that you’ll figure it out along the way.
What’s one thing you’ve been holding back on because it’s not perfect? I’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments.